Happy New Year 2020

Wishing everyone that reads this a happy new year. May all your dreams come true in 2020, and may this new year be better than all your best bits of 2019 😀❤❤

Merry Christmas - 2019

Wishing everyone a very merry Christmas. I'm sharing with everyone my mother's Christmas tree and some of her decorations, as you can see she loves Christmas 😀

Paul John Dark

Today is the funeral of my cousin Paul Dark. Rest in peace.

Rest in peace Paul Dark

2019 - National Coming Out Day

Apparently today is National Coming Out day, but seeing as its pouring down I'm not coming out 😁😃 lol! And my agoraphobia won't let me either 😂❤

I am of course joking but I believe in everyone being treated equally and with respect and kindness. Most people do not understand the subject of gender, partly because of religion and partly because of science and the medical world. Most people believe gender is either male or female, and there is nothing in between; this is wrong. There are intersex medical conditions. Did you know that 1.7% of the world's population is intersex, that's around 150 million people.

There are different types of intersex medical conditions too, its not just a person who is born with both genders, that's extremely rare, and there are two different types. Most people don't know about intersex conditions because society has erased intersex people from history for many many generations. They've considered us freaks, but we're not, we're human beings first and foremost. I refuse to be hidden away or brushed under the carpet.

If you don't understand about the different intersex medical conditions then you simply don't understand gender. Happy coming out day everyone. I wish you all peace, love and good health ❤❤❤

My name is Lisa-Lee Dark and I was born with a rare intersex medical condition called, 'Congenital adrenal hyperplasia' (CAH). My birth name was just Lee Dark and I have been giving media interviews for over 20 years to raise awareness about intersex conditions to create more acceptance and less hate. I am here to help make the world a better place and make sure younger generations won't have to experience the same level of hate I've had to deal with ❤

A Jewish boy

Seeing this photo and reading this story made me cry. And this is the very reason why I'm careful what I say about the situation in Gaza/Palestine and Israel. A 12 year old boy was forced to kiss the feet of another boy, or get beaten up by a gang of nine. The twelve year old Jewish boy then went and told his mother, 'You shouldn't love me because I'm a worthless Jew. I'm a Jewish rodent and I'm vermin'. No child should ever have to feel like this or say those words. It's wrong.

I don't care if you're pro-Israel or pro-Palestine, you need to be careful of the words you choose to use. Hate is a dangerous and powerful weapon, and it spreads like wildfire! My stance on the Palestine/Israel situation is, I'm pro-coexistence. For me its the people who build bridges that are the more important ones. Peace can be achieved but not while both sides are attacking the other. The people who are pro-Israel usually do more to help the Palestinian cause than the pro-Palestinians do, and vice versa, and the reason they do more to help the other side is because of the words they use to attack.

There is right and wrong on both sides, and there are good and bad people on both sides. There is no good guys and bad guys. Although saying that I don't agree with land theft and I don't agree with Collective punishment or the people of Palestine being under military law. And I definitely don't agree with any of the wars they've had with Gaza. But these are the policies of the right wing government, so it's the extreme right wing government that I don't agree with. It's not Jewish people, and the right wing Israeli government don't represent all Jewish people. Don't forget that most of the loudest voices that are fighting for peace in Palestine are Jewish.

Today people will say the most offensive things about Jewish people, but they'll replace the word 'Jewish', and say, 'Zionist', and they'll think its fine to do this because all Jewish Zionists are bad. But this is not correct and it shows that most people don't know what a Zionist is. A Jewish Zionist is someone who believes in a Jewish homeland. A place/country where Jewish people can be safe and free. I don't have the right to tell someone that being a Zionist and wanting a homeland / safe place is wrong. We all want a safe haven. There are lots of Zionists who are also supportive of the Palestinian cause. Being a Zionist doesn't mean you're bad, and the more Jewish people who are attacked, the stronger you make Israel. Additionally not all Jewish people are bankers or extremely wealthy. Look how many Arab Muslims who have obscene wealth.

Lots of people will disagree with me and that's fine, but I urge you all to be careful how you say things, because hate is toxic, and its spreading. No child should ever have to feel like this boy, or be forced to kiss someone else's feet. This reminds me of how I was bullied and humiliated every single day. Being born with a rare intersex medical condition means I'm different and I've had to suffer for being different! I've lost count of the amount of times I've had to deal with sexual and physical assaults, and then been ignored when trying to report them, I've even been blamed or made to feel like they were my own fault. I've even become terrified of losing weight because I've been told I'm going to get raped because I'm getting pretty! I've even found out that there's a £100 bet on for who can rape me in my home! And my attackers have told me that I can't do anything to stop them because, firstly no one listens to me, and secondly, if I report them, they'll accuse me of sexually assaulting them years ago, and they'll get their friends to say the same! This is how sick people are today. People today always try to use sex to humiliate you. They'll accuse you of sleeping around and doing all sorts of disgusting sexual things. This is just to discredit you, so they're free to keep humiliating you and no one will stop them.

I know how this boy feels and no child should ever have to feel like this! Hate is wrong in any form, and that is why I'm now careful about what words I use, even with the Palestine / Israel situation.

https://metro.co.uk/2019/10/04/jewish-boy-forced-kiss-muslim-boys-feet-face-beating-10859052/

Rest in peace angel of Gaza

Today I was reading my Facebook timeline and I came across this sad story, another young man has committed suicide in Gaza. Reading stories like this breaks my heart. This young man from Gaza/Palestine killed himself. Look how young he is, he's really just a young boy. He is the second young man to kill himself in a week. So many people still don't understand how bad, difficult and hard life is in Gaza. There is a very high suicide rate in Gaza, I would say the situation is so bad it's an epidemic. Gaza is the place where hope dies!

Lots of Palestinians are leaving Palestine in search for a better life. A life that has hope, meaning and love. But sadly most of them are ending up stuck in countries like Turkey, Greece or Eastern Europe and they're finding a new hell!

I believe that there is a solution, why can't the EU / UN work together to find a safe haven for these people fleeing. Why can't they work with some African  (or other) countries, so you can make sure the refugees don't have to risk their lives desperately trying to get into Western Europe. Help them settle in a country that you're working with, to help them find peace, safety and dignity. Lots of countries could come together and fund this, and fund housing, educational and working projects to help the refugees. The refugees are some of the hardest working people you'll ever meet. They're leaving their place of origin, not to steal or sponge off other people. They're leaving to find work, to work hard to get themselves and their family out of poverty. They understand that you need to work hard to create a better life.

If there was a place that was a safe haven for them, you could make sure they had any medical help they needed. You could also help train people up for jobs that are needed in the West, make sure the children aren't missing out on their education or studies, help them build businesses up in this area (safe haven), this would also help build up the economy of whatever country they're in. These refugees might decide to stay where they are. By doing this you're keeping them safe, you're ending the human trafficking and you're building up a better, kinder world. Additionally you're not over stretching your own countries resources. Sadly something like this will only happen once man learns how sacred and precious life is. We all need to show more kindness, offer more help and give more love to each other.

Sadly this young boy will never be given a chance at a better life. He deserved so much more and as a world and society we have all failed him! May he rest in peace. And if you're religious do not comment saying suicide is wrong. Do not show more ignorance, if you believe in a God who punishes suicide you believe in a cruel God. This young man felt so empty, so unhappy, and he was in so much pain he ended it, because for him there was no hope and no way out. I believe in a God that is full of love, and He hates to see His people cry or be in pain. When we cry He cries with us. I believe God will understand this young boys pain and He will forgive him, and He'll embrace him and give him the love he needs. If you believe otherwise, keep your comments to yourself. My prayers are with him and his family. Rest in peace little Angel of Gaza ❤❤❤